Imagine, you’re watching the late news and you see terrible pictures of a hurricane that just happened. Lots of homes are destroyed, and people have lost their homes and everything, and everyone looks devastated. You start to wonder why God allows all this suffering to innocent people. You think, “If God is all-powerful and good, why doesn’t He stop this from happening?”
Let’s be honest, we’ve all experienced it, being surprised by a sickness, heartbroken by a loved one’s passing, or being affected by a natural disaster. In those moments, it’s normal to look up at the sky and ask, “Why is this happening?” or “Why does God allow this suffering to happen?”
People have asked this question for ages, struggling to find an answer. But what if the answer isn’t that God doesn’t love us, but that it’s part of being human, our ability to choose? In this blog post, I want us to explore two sides of suffering, free will and the laws of nature, and how God’s grace is present through it all.
The Freedom of Choice is A Double-Edged Sword
In Genesis 1:27, the Bible tells us that God created us in His image, giving us the ability to make choices just like him. Deuteronomy 30:19 highlights this by presenting us with a choice between life and death, blessings and curses. This freedom to choose is both a gift and a responsibility.
Imagine if someone who made wise decisions ended up with the same results as someone who made poor choices. Even better, what if everyone made the same decisions, acted the same way, and experienced the same outcomes? Sounds fair, right? Not quite. Such a world would strip life of its depth, meaning, and the beauty of human experience. Without free will, there would be no victories to celebrate, no mistakes to learn from, and no resilience built through hardship.
The beauty (and sometimes the curse) of life is that we have free will. God, in his infinite wisdom, didn’t create robots programmed to follow a script. He gave us the power to love, to create, and yes, even to make good and bad choices. This freedom, however, comes with responsibility. Our choices can have far-reaching effects, influencing not only our lives but also those around us and even future generations.
Consider the story of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden. Even though they were warned, their choice to eat the forbidden fruit had consequences that rippled through all of humanity. Yet Abraham’s choice to have faith in God left a positive legacy that brought blessings not only to his descendants but to all those who believe. If we enjoy the benefits of the wise choices made by our forefathers, then we should also accept the consequences of their mistakes and learn from them.
The Ripple Effect of our Choices
Galatians 6:7-8 reminds us that “a man reaps what he sows.” Our actions, whether good or bad, have lasting effects. This principle is rooted in God’s established laws, which we cannot violate and God honours his word too (Psalm 138:2).
The Past will always Catch Up with us
Think about the once-popular practice of using lead-based paint in homes. Decades ago, this was a common choice, believed to be safe and durable. Now, we know that lead exposure can cause serious health issues, especially for children. This is a clear example of how decisions made in the past, often with good intentions, can have harmful consequences for future generations. It’s even worse when we act out of malicious intent. Remember how the son of Hamer who raped Jacob’s daughter Dinah bought disaster to the schechemites?
Free Will and Everyday Choices
We often underestimate the ripple effect of our choices. It’s like throwing a stone in a pond, which then makes ripples that go out wider and wider. For instance, two careless drivers, driven by their egos might decide to take a race in a public road, and that might cause a chain reaction accident that impacts multiple people (Proverbs 14:12). A friend who chooses to gossip about someone else might create a toxic environment within a social circle (Proverbs 16:28). Even seemingly small choices can have far-reaching consequences.
It’s not about God favouring or punishing individuals, but about recognizing that our choices impact the world around us, sometimes in ways we can’t immediately predict. Jacob’s life is a clear illustration of “a man reaps what he sows.” principle. His initial deceitful act of tricking his father for a blessing set off a chain of deceit in his own life. The universe reflects back what we plant through our choices, as seen in the story of Jacob. While God’s grace is ever-present to work all things for our good, we remain responsible for the choices we make and their ripple effects.
Balancing Beauty and Risk of the Laws of Nature
Nature is full of incredible beauty, but it also follows rules that can be dangerous if we’re not careful. Think about fire, it gives us warmth and cooks our food, but if it gets out of control, it can destroy homes and forests. Take electricity for example, which powers our lives but can be deadly if mishandled.
These natural laws are like the foundations of the Earth, set by God so that everything has order and purpose, as it says in Psalm 104:5, “He set the earth on its foundations; it can never be moved.” These rules remind us that while we enjoy the good things in life, we must also be wise and careful, understanding that God’s design is deeper than we can comprehend, just as Romans 11:33 says, “Oh, the depth of the riches of the wisdom and knowledge of God!”
Learning from Nature’s Hidden Lessons
Let’s think of a group of friends excited to go on a hiking trip. Despite hearing about possible bad weather, they decide to go anyway, feeling confident they can handle anything. But as they climb higher, they get caught in a sudden storm, and the path becomes slippery and dangerous. This scenario reminds us of the importance of paying attention to warnings and being prepared, as the Bible teaches in Proverbs 27:12, “The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty.”
This reminds me of the story of Noah. God warned Noah of the coming flood, telling him to build an ark to save his family and the animals. Even though others didn’t believe him, Noah listened to God’s wisdom and prepared for the unexpected. When the flood came, Noah’s obedience saved him and those with him. This story is a powerful reminder of the importance of respecting God’s nature, listening to God’s wisdom, and being ready for whatever might come.
God Uses Pain as a Messenger to Fuel Growth
Yet, the question remains. “What about the innocent who suffers as a result of the poor decisions of others?” Pain, whether physical or emotional, often serves as a powerful messenger, that is guiding us or the people around us toward growth and transformation. Just as Romans 8:28 reminds us that “in all things God works for the good of those who love Him,” even the most difficult experiences in life can have a greater purpose.
Take the story of Joseph in Genesis 50:20, what was intended to harm him, God used for good, not only for him but for his family and the nations (Egypt and Israel). This is a testimony that with God, nothing is wasted. Every challenge, every setback, can be a stepping stone toward something greater.
The Role of Suffering in a Christian’s Life
As Christians, we are called to follow Jesus, even when the path includes suffering. Jesus Himself said in Matthew 16:24, “If anyone wants to come with me, he must forget self, carry his cross, and follow me.” This doesn’t mean that suffering is a requirement for faith, but it is a reality we are bound to face on our spiritual journey. However, we are not left without hope. Jesus reassures us in John 16:33, “In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” This promise reminds us that, even in our darkest moments, Christ’s victory is our ultimate comfort and assurance.
Through our struggles, we experience a deeper connection with Christ. As 2 Corinthians 4:10 teaches, “Through suffering, our bodies continue to share in the death of Jesus so that the life of Jesus may also be seen in our bodies.” Our hardships are not in vain; they are opportunities to witness the power of Christ working in us. Philippians 1:29 also highlights this, saying, “For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe in him but also to suffer for him.” Suffering, in this context, becomes a part of our calling as believers, shaping our faith and drawing us closer to Jesus.
The Bible also gives us many examples of individuals who showed incredible faith through suffering. Job lost everything but remained faithful to God. Daniel faced the lions’ den yet was saved through his solid trust in the Lord. Paul endured countless hardships but never stopped spreading the gospel. These biblical heroes remind us that suffering, while painful, can lead to a deeper relationship with God and a stronger, more resilient faith.
Suffering Breeds Strength, Hope and comfort for Others
History is filled with examples of people who turned their suffering into strength or who received strength through other people’s suffering. Think of how many people you know who despite being differently abled, became a symbol of resilience and advocates for people with disabilities. Or think of the strongest believers who, despite enduring painful deaths through terminal illnesses or tragic accidents, left a lasting impact on those around them.
These stories reflect the truth of 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 which states, “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.”
Through our trials, we gain the strength and wisdom to help others who are facing their own difficulties, turning our pain into a source of hope and support for those around us. Some live to share their stories of hope, while others leave behind a legacy that continues to inspire and bring change (be it a cure or spiritual growth for others) long after they are gone. Making their suffering an unforgettable part of history that moves others toward compassion and action. As Isaiah 6:1 reminds us, even in times of great loss, there is a greater vision and purpose at work.
Physical Pain As A Warning That Leads to Action
Try and remember the last time you accidentally touched a hot stove. The pain was immediate and intense, forcing you to pull your hand away quickly. This kind of physical pain serves as a crucial warning system, preventing further injury. In the same way, emotional pain alerts us to issues that need addressing.
For example, a persistent backache might lead you to a doctor’s visit, where an early-stage condition can be treated before it becomes serious. Similarly, the heartache from a broken relationship might push you to seek support, leading to personal growth and healing. Hebrews 12:11 reminds us that, “No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.”
Emotional Pain As A Catalyst for Character Development
Consider the story of a single mother who loses her job. Initially, this setback feels devastating. However, she decides to use this challenge as a chance to pursue further education and build a new career. Her journey, although painful, ultimately leads to a more fulfilling and stable life, not just for herself but also for her children.
Such change reflects the wisdom found in James 1:2-4, which encourages us to “consider it pure joy… whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” Through such experiences, emotional pain becomes a catalyst for growth that strengthens our character and deepens our faith.
God’s Presence in Suffering
The greatest demonstration of God’s presence in suffering is the story of Jesus Christ. Innocent and perfect, He willingly endured unimaginable pain on the cross for our redemption (Isaiah 53:5). God had the power to stop his suffering, but He chose to allow it, offering the ultimate act of love and a path to eternal life (Romans 5:8). His sacrifice reminds us that even in the darkest moments, we are not alone. God walks beside us, bringing comfort and a way forward (Matthew 28:20).
Turning Suffering into Growth
Let’s be honest, Suffering is really hard. There’s no getting around it. But here’s the thing, it doesn’t have to define us. James 1:2-4 encourages us, we should “consider it pure joy” when we face trials because they test our faith and develop perseverance. When faced with challenges, we can choose to become bitter or better. We can let suffering break us, or we can use it as an opportunity for growth. Romans 8:28 reminds us that in all things, God works for the good of those who love Him, even in our suffering.
Let’s discuss some ways to turn your suffering into something positive:
Seek Support:
Proverbs 12:25 tells us that “anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up.” We weren’t meant to go through life alone. Share your burdens with trusted friends, family, or a therapist. Talking about your struggles can be incredibly healing and can help you gain a new perspective.
Find Meaning in your suffering:
As 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 reminds us, God comforts us in our troubles so that we can comfort others. Look for ways to turn your suffering into something that helps others. You might volunteer at a hospital or start a support group for people going through similar experiences. Helping others can be a powerful way to find healing.
Focus on Gratitude:
1 Thessalonians 5:18 encourages us to “give thanks in all circumstances.” It’s easy to get caught up in negativity when you’re suffering, but taking time to appreciate the good things in your life, no matter how small, can shift your perspective and build your resilience.
Embrace Faith:
Hebrews 11:6 tells us that “without faith, it is impossible to please God.” For many, faith offers a source of strength and comfort during tough times. Lean on your spiritual practice during hardship. Whether through prayer, meditation, or spending time in nature, you can find peace and a connection to something larger than yourself, as Psalm 46:1 reminds us that “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”
In Conclusion
Suffering is a part of the human experience. It’s inevitable. But it doesn’t have to be the end of the story. By embracing free will, understanding the role of natural laws and pain, and seeking meaning in our struggles, we can emerge from suffering stronger, more compassionate, and more connected to ourselves and the world around us (Romans 8:28).
Remember, this is just a starting point for your journey of understanding suffering and free will. Keep exploring, questioning, and finding meaning in your own experiences.
